I sometimes do not get why some people hate change. Change is constant. We do not paralyze our own thoughts and actions. We do different things every time, we say different words every time, we learn from new experiences every day; we grow.
I personally think change is a good thing—bad or good—it makes us who we are as a person. When you genuinely love someone, you accept them as who they are or what they might become simply because you love them. You might miss who they were before but let them grow. Don’t just focus on their changes. Let yourself grow too and try to look at yourself: on how well you’ve become, on how well you’ve changed. Although when there is nothing to change, then don’t.
You know a person is for keeps even when they’ve changed but your relationship with them didn’t. Of course, a person not worth your time will not bother to stay no matter what circumstance it may be.
So go, go wherever path you may want(I hope it’s the right one). Do not, do not be afraid to take chances, to take risks. Accept, accept the outcomes. Be patient because it will, it will be all worth it in the end. Every beautiful butterfly flying anywhere was once a cocoon. Change—it’s a process.
“God changes caterpillars into butterflies, sand into pearls, and coal into diamonds using time and pressure. He’s working on you too.”
— Rick Warren